One thing a lot of people tell you when you become a mother is that you should savor the early months and years of the child，because they're over so quickly．Most of them mean well．But it's still unhelpful advice if you're the kind of person，like me，who keeps asking self-conscious questions：Am I savoring things enough？What if I'm not？Will I regret it later？This mindset is incompatible （矛盾的）with actually savoring time with my son happily，which was probably what I was doing immediately before you reminded me to do so．We focus too desperately on trying to avoid regret and spend a lot of time worrying about the risk of future regret，which is a rubbish way to spend your time，and therefore something you're likely to regret．
The point applies to any aspect of life，of course：your time on Earth is short；it's important to use it well；and yet thinking too hard about whether you're using it well isn't an example of using it well．Additionally，research suggests that the fear of fixture regret makes people unwilling to take risks-so as well as wasting time worrying，they're likely to make regrettably cautious choices．
Yet the worst part about trying to decrease future regret，surely，is that you'll never know if you will succeed．Who's to say you'd have felt more or less regret if you'd taken a different path？In a film，several parents regretted having kids．Obviously，though，they can't know for sure if they'd have regretted not having kids even more．The same applies to those who regret being childless．
So far，I'm happy to say，I seem to be the other kind of person-I never regret．The effort spent worrying about the future regret seems stupid to me，since what we worry about probably won't come true．The truth is that savoring life in some sense requires being willing to waste it，so as not to constantly focus on whether we're using it well．Time's too precious to treat it as too precious．
（1）The underlined word"savor"in Paragraph 1 probably means AA．
A．fully enjoy
B．make use of
C．spend carefully
D．save as much as possible
（2）In the author's opinion，what's the problem of most people？ BB
A．They spend too much time regretting．
B．They pay too much attention to avoiding regret．
C．They fail to make cautious choices for the future．
D．They often worry about the present too much．
（3）What does the author try to tell us in Paragraph 3？ BB
A．We would succeed as long as we are determined．
B．We cannot possibly know how things will develop．
C．We would regret either having kids or being childless．
D．We never know when we will succeed．
（4）Which of the following best reflects the main idea of the passage？ BB
A．Try your best to avoid regret．
B．Stop worrying about future regrets．
C．Think carefully before doing things．
D．Do things by following others' advice．
【答案】A；B；B；B
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