Getting along with parents
Can you get along well with your parents？ Is it possible to be friends with your mom and dad？
Nowadays Chinese kids have difficult relationships with their parents． Parents with high expectations （期望） for their kids are nothing new to Chinese kids． However， people often don't know that kids also have expectations for their parents． What expectations do Chinese kids have for parent-kid relationships？
China Youth & Children Research Center did a survey on this topic in the USA， Japan， South
Korea and China． Let's see the result．
| China | US | Japan | South Korea | |
| Kids want to be friends with parents | 83.3% | 80.5% | 78.2% | 76% |
| Kids think parents understand them | 80.6% | 86.6% | 89% | 93.3% |
Many experts say that traditional Chinese values （價(jià)值） such as respecting the old and the concept of hierarch （等級(jí)觀念）are stopping parents from being friends with their kids． And many Chinese parents push their kids， because there is lots of competition in school． Not only parents but also kids have to try their best to create a friendship in family．
As kids， what can you do to improve the relationship？ Read on to find out!
? Open your heart
Sharing your feelings with your parents can lead to positive changes， while not sharing them
may make them misunderstand you sometimes．
? Care for your parents
Do some housework for them， make them gifts or teach them some computer skills． Their trust in you will grow．
| Getting along with parents | |
| The（1） relationships relationships |
Parents have high expectations for kids． Kids also have expectations for their parents． |
| The results of the survey | Chinese kids want to be friends with their parents （2） the most the most among the four countries． Chinese parents understand kids （3） least least among the four in the survey． |
| The （4） differences differences between American and Chinese families |
In America， girls often tell secrets to their moms， go shopping for clothes and do each other's makeup． In China， kids usually don't do things like that． |
| Experts' ideas | Old mind stops parents from being friends with their kids． （5） Both of Both of them need to create a friendship in family． |
| The tips to make home a happy place | Share feelings with parents． （6） Help Help them （7）with with housework．Make them gifts． Teach them some computer skills． |
【考點(diǎn)】人與社會(huì)．
【答案】relationships；the most；least；differences；Both of；Help；with
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